Love children, children not beaten
Text / Monica

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Loved is a pleasure, I believe all parents love their own children. But also easy to see that our side say love children: the children themselves from morning to evening to earn money to support their families. Side of the beatings the child: children do wrong things, and ushered in not playing that curse.

Once, I went to jolly-square through the district, I see far in front of a 6-year-old little sister used to push a cart is only about 7-8 months, little brother. Mom was in the back as they walked along with knitting. Girl’s height and cart umbrella just as high. Therefore, when the side of the cart forward little sister also sideways to see the road ahead. Not far from the little sister I do not know who pulled a line blocking the road. Little sister and did not find this line, because now her little sister while bending over teasing little brother while playing Tuizhe Che Mother had been followed to focus the organization did not find the sweater in front of this line.

Little sister continue to live before the promotion, “splash” car was blocking the line, due to inertia sister to hold cart to lean forward a bit and almost fell onto the floor. Little by little sister Yi Che almost to cart overturned. Mom to see this happen quickly stepped forward to hold on to cart little brother finally ok. Then my mother started beating her little sister also kept the cursed mouth: “You useless things, do not have eyes Yeah! Walk without looking where you doing? Okay little brother did not hurt.” Sister had been scared spent. Little sister’s tears crashed in going out, but she has dared to cry. It was so despite my mother cursed. Estimated to be at home, little sister used to such abuse.

Obviously, the mother is patriarchal. I want to the mother, said: “Since you have chosen students why she did not love her? Are their own flesh and blood, are children, children need to maternal love.” That thing just , why not reflect on the mother, is this thing to blame a mere 6-year-old children? Why is the mother not to also share some motherly love to her daughter? Even just a greeting: you hurt it?

Yesterday, after dinner, the room is too stuffy, and we a tea in the balcony. Suddenly, I heard loud downstairs a father scolded child, the child has been in the loud cry. More fortunate looked downstairs and saw grass, a father beating a 5-year-old boy about his mouth stop the curse: “I do not listen to you, act you said several times or did not listen.” estimate boy done something wrong or did not listen to provoke brain a father.

Father, eager to criticize, can play no matter how small boy my father, the little boy grabbed his father’s clothes, or have been crying: “Daddy Do not hit! Pain!.” Dad’s playing to be exciting, the final simply putting a little boy picked up from the grass fling, said: “I do not want you, you figure it out yourself!” dropped the little boy turned to go home after the father. I saw the little boy to climb despite the pain of the body catch up on Dad, catch up with the clothes after the Chezhu father cried out for mercy: “Father I want to go.” But the father did not care about the little boy picked up again once he Renghui just that on the grass, Repeat this movement four times. feel the father is not in educating the children, but children as props to vent their own emotions.

See my tears. Peas have slumped over the balcony to see. Peas distressed and said: “I do not know him (the boy) was not hurt, certainly injure, or else he would not cry so sad.” Finally I do not know my father was tossing tired, or was the boy moved. finally took home the little boy’s hand.

When children do wrong things, parents how to deal? Is patient with the right guidance or threat of force? It’s worth considering. Love is not a slogan; undying love; love is unisex; love is selfless; love from the heart. Love child would have to pay more attention to him; love their children more than is necessary to accompany him; love child would have to accept his education in his right boot.

Love is a spiritual experience, a good and noble emotions feelings. For thousands of years, countless men of letters, with their style to describe the good feelings of the human heart and emotions. Meanwhile, love is a basic human survival needs heart. However, long-term living conditions too difficult, we have lost the feeling, but also ignores the basic psychological needs. Dropped all the emotions we really love your child!